Disclaimer: This entry is just voicing out a habit which i just do not prefer.. of myself..and which i think becomes a bad habit of others. It is the truth so bare with me and with this entry. I am sorry if it first of all causes any harm and offence to others. I do not mean for it to do. But i think it is an issue which should actually be resolved in some manner. To just bring a little awareness in ourselves.
Swearing, curses, cusses, obscenities, vulgarities…however you wanna put them or say them, they are still the same. They are all swears.
Personally me as a person, at one point I did not swear. Then after that i was influenced in swearing from reading a book which had the f”"” word all over the place. My friend who does swear was shocked because i never swore before that. I shrugged it off at first then later on it hit me. I didn’t like the habit. It was foul and uncool, and most of all, it makes a bad impression on me. It would protray me as a person who is unsophisticated, unphased by manners, and just downright rude. I have my points when i do swear at times yes but even so, I do my utmost to never swear and if not to keep it as mild as possible.
People who swear constantly, like rappers or black movies or adult movies or young adult movies. What is it with the love for the curses? Every single sentence that comes out of their mouth is always full of one swear words which leads into chains of swear words until they finally reach what they want to say.
Normal: What is the problem?
Swearing: What is you @$%&ing #$%@ ^&% of a problem?
As much as when one is angry, I just don’t think it neccessary for one to go screaming obscenities at one another to show displeasure. Does it really release tension? Does it give off any benefit in the end to the individual or the people around the individual? When people start swearing in public, one instantly knows there is a disagreement of some kind. Swearing in the end finally ruins the picture for people.
One which i particularly do not like is when they bring in obscenities including God’s name. It is a highly respected name which deserves so much praise and adoration and people can just nicely go ahead and use it in blasphemous terms. You are using His name in vain.
Just for example “god d*****t”
How would one like it if instead of putting the name God, try putting in your name, or even your parents name. So it then becomes “James d*****t” or “Ryan d*****t” I am not trying to be funny. I’m trying to point out that these are names which you hold dear to yourselves. So now how bout a name which is divine? Doesn’t one think they should burn for having blasphemised in such a manner?
I once asked what is the problem with swearing…after being in with crowds (no pinpointing) of different groups…i finally understand why. Swearing just hurts…and it does not give off any benefit to anyone. The words are harsh and crude.
I give a lot of credit to people who choose not to cuss in public or anywhere. To me it shows maturity, integrity to oneself and and a sign of respect to others no matter who they are.
I know this goes for everyone, but for girls who do swear. I’m sorry but it just tarnishes the image we would like to portray. If possible try as much as you can to minimise it. Being modern for a women does not mean she does what she wants and be who she wants just for sake of believing that phrase of individuality. Be someone who is righteous…for lack of a better word.
For those who want to defend themselves here for i foresee it. Go ahead you have a right too. But just keep in mind in the end. Do you see a point for swearing? And could one have handled a situation differently?
Let me ask to readers, when one or you swear. Why did you say it? or Who were you saying it too? Was there even a valid reason for you to cuss?